Embracing the way of delight and gentleness | with Sally Clarkson

Stephanie welcomes Sally Clarkson to discuss her rich experiences in living a faith-filled life across various cultures. As both women share their journeys, the themes of community, self-awareness, and intentional delight arise, inviting us on the path of delight and gentleness, in the gentle spirit of Christ.

Listen here: https://www.podcastics.com/episode/312225/link/ 

catch the conversation on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/gospelspice 

Sally Clarkson’s gentle wisdom, intimate reflections, and emphasis on intentional delight offer us a blueprint for a well-lived, faith-filled life. By fostering community, embracing one's uniqueness, and cultivating gentleness in everyday interactions, we can navigate life's challenges with grace and joy.

Sally's book, "Well Lived," showcases how, through embracing various cultures, Sally grew to appreciate Scripture's wisdom, recognizing the universal need for love, truth, and grace transcending cultural boundaries. She emphasizes liking oneself and seeing one's uniqueness as part of God's creation. The discussion around Sally’s book expanded into the concept of delight, especially important during challenging times. Sally shared about her friend Gwennie, an "emissary of delight," who celebrated Sally's birthday with thoughtfully pre-collected gifts even during financial hardship. This proactive approach to finding joy emphasizes the importance of intentionally creating "rhythms of delight" to counteract dark and difficult times, especially for women who often deplete their emotional reserves caring for others.

Sally's practice of implementing delight into her family life serves as a defense against depression, emphasizing hope, beauty, and goodness. This proactive strategy replenishes emotional well-being and fosters a positive environment.

Sally reflects on how gentleness developed within her through humility and God’s presence during tough times. Christ's model of gentle nature serves as a guide, emphasizing humility and meekness in dealing with others, especially teenagers, who need understanding rather than correction. Wisdom and patience often grow through life experiences and God’s stretching. The humorous insights Sally shares on personal growth, including her ongoing journey toward that elusive sinlessness, underline the continuous nature of spiritual maturation.

Stephanie and Sally speak on the value of originality over imitation, using metaphors like zebras and Dalmatians to celebrate individual uniqueness. Sally shares a poignant story from her book about a chandelier shop, emphasizing that different lights (people) serve different purposes, yet all contribute to illuminating the community’s collective purpose.

Sally has lived in numerous countries, and she recounts her days in Oxford, where she found a vibrant community among expatriates. The common needs of finding doctors, grocery stores, and friendships bound people together in this academic town, many being students from different parts of the world. This shared sense of reliance fostered a unique sense of community. Sally's reflections highlight the human need for connection and the beauty found in mutual support and friendship. Stephanie echoed these sentiments, reflecting on her experiences in four different countries. She emphasized how immersing oneself in another culture leads to self-awareness and growth.

MORE ABOUT “WELL LIVED”

Write a Beautiful Story with Your Life

You are invited to embark on a journey toward greater service, lasting significance, and wholehearted delight—a life truly well lived!

In this transformative journey through heartfelt reflections and breathtaking photos, bestselling author Sally Clarkson explores how God’s astounding grace empowers you to lead a joyful life loving and encouraging others. Drawing from her time in Oxford and years in ministry, she offers wisdom on the topics of discipleship, family, hospitality, and cultivating joy that will inspire you to invite God more fully into your own story.

Wherever you are in your life’s journey, Sally’s encouraging insights will call you to deeper faith and guide you toward a life filled with direction, meaning, courage, and contentment.

"Our way to this fruitful, flourishing, well-lived life comes when we willingly accept the mantle of devotion with a servant’s heart full of love for Him— creating beauty again and again, loving, forgiving, sacrificing, pouring our lives out to bring light and redemption to our world every day.”

In her new book Well Lived: Shaping a Legacy of Gratitude and Grace (Harvest House, October 8), bestselling author and top podcaster Sally Clarkson teaches us how to exchange the frantic pace of life and the temporary distractions and drainers around us for a slice of life she personally found tucked away in small town Oxford, England. Serving as her home-away-from-home, Oxford has allowed Sally to spend her time devoted to the things in life that truly matter, and she shares the extremely personal lessons and stories from her own life to invite readers to find their own – and become stronger in the process.

 “Learning and understanding that every woman has potential to embrace her own story, to become ‘queen’ of her own domain, to work hard to leave a legacy of wisdom, love, gratitude, and grace emerged as a message while I walked through the parks and meadows [of Oxford] and wrote in my journal,” Clarkson writes. “Women, I believe, are amazing creatures and have the ability to civilize the world, to influence generations by generously pouring out love, training the very character and souls of the next generation and persevering through great trials and challenges while coming out resiliently.”

Despite the dreamy descriptions of her quaint cottage, heart-to-heart chats with friends over cups of tea, and long strolls along cobblestone streets, Sally’s journey in Oxford isn’t a complete fairytale. She chronicles the challenges she faced and the grace God has provided in the journey.  In her transparency, Sally walks readers through the temporary hardships that eventually lead to lasting contentment. From the ups and downs of motherhood and marriage, work and perseverance, to what it means to be a good friend, love God well, and be a light in the world, there is deep wisdom and heart on the pages of Well Lived.

 Sally inspires women to think about their daily choices and the legacy they are leaving. Each person will make a unique imprint in life and we can choose to leave a legacy of love and encouragement in the lives of everyone we meet.

 Readers will understand God’s grace and desire to come into their lives by joining Sally on her own journey from her college dorm to present day, where she has spent years in ministry and relies on God as her constant companion. For Sally, that companionship is at the center of everything that makes her life well lived, and He will do the same for others, no matter where they are on their journeys or in their stories.

 "Our way to this fruitful, flourishing, well-lived life comes when we willingly accept the mantle of devotion with a servant’s heart full of love for Him—creating beauty again and again, loving, forgiving, sacrificing, pouring our lives out to bring light and redemption to our world every day.”

 Sally’s wisdom, encouragement and ability to level the playing field with her insightful and emotive writing will point readers to a life of meaning they may have not thought possible, especially if they are struggling or feel alone.

MEET SALLY CLARKSON

Here is what Sally wants to say to you:

“To be clear, my site is not just about what I am and what I do, but about who I am and who I follow—a Christian woman, wife, and mother, living for Christ each day and sharing my journey of faith. That’s “about” it. However, if you’re anything like me, your interest in what I have to say will be inseparable from who I am. So, let me give you a brief “About Me” glimpse into my life.

There’s nothing I enjoy more than being with my family. Every time we gather for an afternoon teatime with candles, music, and a tasty morsel—whether it’s just Clay and me, or the whole tribe—we re-enact a tradition that has occurred thousands of times in our more than four decades of being the Clarkson family. We talk, laugh, debate, cry, pray, and dream together about who we are, what we believe, what we’re doing, and who we’re becoming on our journeys of faith. I think perhaps all that tea has been a spiritual catalyzer for us! But even fueled with my strong Yorkshire Gold English tea, I could not have imagined as a young woman the life that lay ahead for me.

Clay and I began our journey of marriage and life together on August 30, 1981. Like every young couple, we had dreams and hopes of what our future might hold. However, I could not foresee the ministry journey ahead for us, and for me—missions and church, starting Whole Heart Ministries, training families in church workshops, encouraging mothers in sixty hotel conferences over twenty years, serving moms and families internationally, writing or co-writing more than two dozen books, and personally encouraging countless women online through my blog, podcast, and “Life with Sally” membership community. And all that happened while I was also being a full-time wife and mother, a homemaker of the nineteen homes we’ve given life to in ten cities, and a home educating parent of my four precious children. We’ve moved from “we’ve only just begun,” to “look what God has done.”

My children are all grown now and making their own places and marks in the world and around the world, but I still want to be around them—enjoying who they are, learning from what they’re learning, sharing in their journeys with God (learn more about them on ClarksonFamily.com). I’ve always been a visionary idealist, probably a bit to my family’s patient chagrin, so I will always have more thoughts and ideas to share, projects to pursue, people to meet, and things to do. Just a quick look at this website will reveal that I still enjoy sharing my heart on my podcast, offering help and hope on my blog, staying involved in my “Life with Sally” online community, and connecting with followers on Instagram and Facebook. And of course I still have several new books to share over the next few years.

 But even in this full and new season of my life, I’m making conscious choices to slow down so I can enjoy some of the simpler things in life—long walks, good friends, grandchildren, reading, traveling, fellowship at lifegiving tables, and of course, those catalyzing family tea times. I’m still on the same journey of faith I began in college when I accepted Christ and have continued with Clay and my children as a family. I will be on that journey until it ends and I meet my Savior face to face. So, whether you’re an old friend, or a new one, I’m glad you’re here to share this journey of faith and hope with me. It’s a long road and I welcome your company.”

More at https://sallyclarkson.com/